i only have two.
but you gotta get the other side of the story. MY side!!
I'll try to keep the parts you're familiar with brief and stick to my highlights.
so from vegas---
-death valley: like an oven, hot wind is awful, eerie, beautiful
-yosemite: need to go back and climb half dome once my knee is better, but only go when school is still in session and hopefully it's less packed.
-half moon bay: is vunderbar. oh, man. some of the sun on the water scenes that I've seen are just perfect. the water is white with the sun hovering in a white sky. or blazing orange with pinks and purples like a three year old just happened to use her favourite crayons. I think i have discovered that actually the coloration of everyting we create to imitate nature can be whatever we want it to be and it would still at some point be accurate. neon grass, blood moon, purple trees, all true to form.
BUT we went to see knight and day in San Mateo. (cute film, not the point) remember when i said i wanted to get really lost? Well, friends, I succeeded. near the end of the film I began to have the deepest, most incomprehensible sense of deja vu, so bad that I could barely tell where I was anymore. How many times have i been in a movie theater? well, i started to remember, to feel all those times. going to the bathroom, walking down the street. Everywhere I looked, a different part of my life flashed before my eyes. I've seen intersections like this, streetlamps, the sky, everything. and i just wanted to close my eyes and stop looking. where am i, really? and why? and where do i want to be? and the whole time, i know this is it. this is the moment that i just must work through.
but at the same time that i moan and shuffle my way through this, my poor friend tom thinks he may have to drop me off at the hospital and ckeck me in as having gone insane. he said he didnt think it was that deep a movie. I tried to tell him this was a good thing, but he was scared and angry and confused. I felt bad, but it was hard to balance it all in my head and i wanted to get something out of it.
and no, i dont do drugs.
moral of the story is that i am lost, lost, lost, but never quite as lost as then. i'll keep the real stuff to myself for now.
-San francisco: i didnt get mugged, meet any celebs, or buy any musical instruments, amen. though i thought about getting a stick base, but it seems my limited wrist and elbow rotation may keep me from strings forever.
thursday i went to see my friend, brittany (brittanygoesglobal.com) who is a Kiva fellow and happened to be in town training for them and that night was a "social mixer." I got there and had no idea what to do once i finished looking at the art in the space. Brit had to talk to people about microloans and I was supposed to just shmooze. so i put a glass of wine in my hand and flicked on the flirt switch and had a blast. it's nice to remember that I can still work it. then at the after party I gave brittany and i gave each other a pep talk. i reminded her how she believes everything happens for a reason, and she reminded me that i'm smart and she believes in me. feel good. also, by the end of the night i had a fedora and a date, if i wanted it. but you know, its hard to date when you're skipping town.
I went to the chabad house for shabbat. got my jew on. met some very very cool girls who were hitchin around california. argued about israel and muslims and the like, which i generally try to avoid. But it was nice to be encouraged not to avoid it and realize i still have some passion about it. mostly i just cant stand all the lying propaganda and thinly veiled racism. (on both sides, but i usually end up defending muslims when im talking to jews) i hate politics, but i love people.
-crater lake, mount ranier: were pretty. not being able to hike was a bummer. the trip is starting to feel less adventurous. injury, weariness, less money, colder weather, i'm not sure what it is. but we look forward to beds and showers more than we do to rocks, it seems. just driving through parks is not so exciting. and we havent written much in the way of music since tom got a banjo. we're starting to get closer and closer to having to think about the next step in our lives. which also requires that i think about the last step in my life. what did i do wrong? what wont i do again? did he ever really love me? blah blah blah. seattle and alaska have been very family oriented. canada was very driving oriented, but we did meet shillen. (
www.texas4000.org/user/profile/10311) and we listened to a book called Thunderstruck.
I've also read A Fine Balance, Balzac and the Little Chinese Seamstress, Emergenetics, Dinner with Hitler and Hemmingway, and some short stories by Irish writers. We're now listening to A Wolf at the Table.
-olympic: we met a ranger who told us that we needed a bunch of different things for the car for the trip though the canada. but we wouldnt know how to use them. and mostly we just needed a fireproof car. she also let me try on elk horns in the back room. and i learned about trees and moss and nature stuff.
-alaska: ive been talking to internet strangers, something i've done since we got AOL when i was ten or so. i think i'm just craving some social contact. tom and i havent quite run out of things to say to each other, but it has been two months, and we don't do the whole intimacy bit, so sometimes we can get a little lonely. I talked to tom's aunt for hours friday night though, which was really great.
I went to a reform synagogue on saturday, which was challenging. Very anthropological, literary, or "reasoned inquiry" approach. Which made me realize that I have become quite a bit more devotional than i thought. (if youd like to understand those two sentences a bit more, read Dale Cannon's Six ways of Being Religious.)
I tried to dye my hair out of boredom and nothing changed. i guess im just meant to be this way for now.
lots of ass jokes at toms expense.
so now what?
ah, the future. My friend Amy should be joining us hopefully in colorado, which may put some spring back in my step if a grizzly doesnt get me first. I'm real excited for the black hills and all that jazz. there's gunna be some good rocks. and SHEEPS to be seen in the canadian parks. i think maybe i just need to listen to more hanson. (and probably, so do you! just TRY and tell me thinkin bout somethin doesnt make you feel a little better. you cant.)
so i know i didnt put any dicks or jokes or pics in this one. I'll make up for it next time. is that a threat or a promise?
well, you know, ive started meeting people who read the blog. and i just turn bright red. writing to the anonymous world about handjobs is one thing, but to tom's uncles whom i meet is another.
i probably just need to dance it out.
you probably wont hear from me again in a while, but it's been good. i think the third leg is going to kick some ass. but hopefully not tom's ass because then we'll have to stay by running water for a week. ;)
off to the big rock,
Lizzie